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The 19th century Frenemy - Jane Austen's Lucy Steele found in Florida

The 19th century Frenemy - Jane Austen's Lucy Steele found in Florida

Dear Erica, I am a Freshman at FIU and I’m beginning to be suspicious of my roommate(let’s call her Nikki).  I started dating a guy six months ago, and Nikki always manages to flirt with him when we g...

Why are we so good at giving advice, but so bad at applying it to our own lives?  As EM Forster explains Life is easy to chronicle, but bewildering to practice...

Why are we so good at giving advice, but so bad at applying it to our own lives? As EM Forster explains Life is easy to chronicle, but bewildering to practice...

Dear Erica Why is it so much easier to see what others should do in their love lives?  My best friend is engaged to this banker who is totally wrong for her and I know she still loves her ex-boyfriend...

College Reunions and Jane Austen's Emma - Lessons in Friendship

College Reunions and Jane Austen's Emma - Lessons in Friendship

Dear Erica, I’ve just spent time with an old college friend at a reunion weekend and we just didn’t connect in the way we once did.  It’s so sad.  We used to be really close but we just don’t have muc...

Flirting with other men when you are in a committed relationship.  Can it ever be a good thing?

Flirting with other men when you are in a committed relationship. Can it ever be a good thing?

Dear Erica, Do you think it is bad to flirt with other men when you are in a committed relationship? Flirtatious in Fairford Dear Flirtatious in Fairford, There are many different types of flirting a...

Finding Friends in the 21st Century - What advice would Elizabeth Bennet give us?

Finding Friends in the 21st Century - What advice would Elizabeth Bennet give us?

Dear Erica, For about a year, I've been a part of a group of mothers who meet for a monthly night out. As the months have progressed, I have found that I cannot stand one or two of the women! I used t...